Alright, Amy Lynn Campbell, I'm only writing this because you asked me to and I love you just that much. So lately, something has been on my mind. Also, to start off, if this post begins to offend you... Feel free to quit reading. This is all my opinion on situations and as a loud opinionated person I tend to share it as I please. Don't take offense when it's your choice to keep reading mmk my dears? :)
Going right along hand in hand with that last sentence.... I struggle to feel bad for people sometimes. Now, don't go taking that the wrong way. I have a heart or at least would like to think so but when it comes to certain situations I really struggle to justify feeling bad for you. Too often, we as people get into this mindset towards our problems that there is nothing we can do about it. Sometimes, there really is nothing we can do about the problem but only how we react to it. But, all too often, we are actually creating the problem and then turning around and saying we cannot do anything about it. It's times like these when I stop attempting to comfort you in these "problems" but try more to help you see what the problem actually is. It is usually at about this moment in time when people start getting upset with me for being "uncaring" and "non-comforting".
We call that reality and sometimes someone has to be the voice of it for it to ever get it's recognition. We all have that person who is the voice of reality to us. The one we avoid because we know they're right 99% of the time. The one we always seem to turn to when crap hits the fan. You know who they are. You love them and hate them all at the same time. I'm just attempting to put the facts into perspective and if you can't handle that then please don't turn to me for comfort with something you're causing! Plain and simple! Do something about your bad mood and change it!
Alright, I know that all that is easier said than done. I also know that nobody is perfect ESPECIALLY myself! But that doesn't mean that we can't get better. Every person ALWAYS has room for improvement. There literally is always more that we can be doing. Life can seem and most definitely is a daunting task BUT God would not have trusted us with it if He did not think we were up for the challenge. We were never told that life would be easy but only that it would be worth it. And through God's help he can make us strong enough for the task if we will simply turn to him.
"And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them." (Ether 12:27)
We are never alone. God sees us at all times even when we are choosing not to follow Him. He never will forsake us but rather we do that on our own. He has given up everything for us and suffered everything we ever have or will and more! Turn to him always and you will find your solace. If you aren't willing to do that then do you truly desire to be happy? Are you really willing to do anything it takes to have that blessing of happiness in your life? Just something to think about. I really do love you all and you can indeed turn to me whenever you need help! But just know... If you ask me what you should do, I will be honest in my answers and opinions. If you don't like them... Simply disregard them! I will not be offended! Just don't ask again since you at that point, already have the answers! :D
